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Asking “Can ‘we’ slow things down?” acknowledges you both have a role to play in responding to one another with more curiosity and care.
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Advice: Asking 'Can we slow things down?' during an argument acknowledges a shared role in de-escalation.
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- Allen Sabey
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- September 18, 2026 at 5:05 PM (3 weeks ago)
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- September 18, 2026 at 5:05 PM (3 weeks ago)
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https://nytimes.com/2025/09/12/well/family/couples-therapy-argument-phrases.html
Couples therapists offer eight key phrases that can improve communication and strengthen relationships, even during disagreements. These phrases focus on understanding, empathy, and gratitude.
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