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Claim Text: Crucially, it is different than telling your partner to calm down, Dr. Sabey added, which can be “emotionally dismissive.”
Simplified Text: Dr. Allen Sabey stated that telling a partner to 'calm down' can be emotionally dismissive.
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Claim Maker: Allen Sabey
Context Type: News Article
Context Details: { "person": "Allen Sabey", "concept": "Emotional dismissal" }
Subject Tags: Psychology Relationships
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Created: September 18, 2026 at 5:05 PM (3 weeks ago)
Last Updated: September 18, 2026 at 5:05 PM (3 weeks ago)

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8 Phrases to Help Your Relationship Thrive

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https://nytimes.com/2025/09/12/well/family/couples-therapy-argument-phrases.html

Couples therapists offer eight key phrases that can improve communication and strengthen relationships, even during disagreements. These phrases focus on understanding, empathy, and gratitude.

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